You've been in all the mommmy forums, trying to find some rationale reason why your husband or boyfriend (or ex-boyfriend!) is being a zero in the dad department with your baby.

You're not asking for the world. You're just asking him to be involved and do his part.

Here's a guy's perspective - things I know as a guy myself, things I know from talking to guys, and what I know reading research - on that regular question: "Why won't my baby's dad help out?"